One Nation Under God... Right?

"If men were angels no government would be necessary." Since we are not angels, government's role is to discourage harm and encourage good." James Madison-Father of the Constitution

The statement above also applies in school settings; the need to have standards and rules in school is essential to encourage good. On page 29 in the book titled Dude You're a Fag, we discussed the need for a dress code and how it emphasized gender difference through its clothing polices. America was founded on Christian Principles, "In God we trust" a belief in the Bible and its doctrine. This concept explains why the affirmation and definition of normative sexual and gender identities in a school setting reinforce definitions of heterosexuality (Letts and Sears 1999).

The fact is that Men-Women unions are the foundation of civilization!!! Would we exist without men and women unions? NO.... Would lesbians, gays, or transgendered folk exist without Men-Women unions? NO...Life as we know it would cease if everyone accepted the life style of same-sex relationships? So why tolerate it or encourage it? Why do we argue about simple things such as feminine and masculine characteristics, dress codes, and gender?  Perspectives that were formed based on life and documented history passed down through generations.

To dig deeper into modern issues, let’s talk about the notion of “Relative Truth which negates the belief that some beliefs are true and some are false. As a consequence, all beliefs are equally valid and all must be accepted.” I think this concept is displayed as a little d discourse in our class, working to change the Big D discourse of current American standards.There is a standard of right and wrong; if not, why have any rules or laws. We should accept pedophiles who “feel” or desire to be with children, and Gay-bashers who are born “mean/hateful” and can’t help themselves. FOOLISH right…

The concept Moral Relativism is the view that moral or ethical statements, which vary from person to person, are equally valid and no one's opinion of right and wrong is really better than any other. It further expresses that there is no ultimate standard of good and evil, so every judgment about right and wrong is purely a product of a person's preferences and environment. This notion is very POPULAR and encouraged in our class. I believe this is the basis of our classroom culture; YET Moral Relativism is said to “make society unstable, as the concepts of right and wrong suddenly becomes a question of shifting popular opinions.” Everyone is free to speak their opinion in class and no one is corrected or given a standard of right or wrong, a perfect example of Moral Relativism.

Fundamentally we are all expected to recognize and respect other's beliefs, and or practices without sharing them. We are expected to put up with someone or something not especially liked. YET remain intolerant of behaviors or opinions that are not compatible to our beliefs and Spiritual Doctrine. I believe the goal of Public Schools is to respect but not encourage or condone anything not encouraging what they consider good.

Please find further reading and information about Moral Relativism and Relative Truth   at www.allaboutworldview.org; www.allaboutlove.org; www.allaboutphilosophy.org

African American Stigma

I argue that PRIOR to the  Economic OR medical treatment barrier.  African American Stigma strongly contributes to the fact of why many African American children are under diagnosed.

"When it comes to MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES, African Americans tend to rely on religious figures, friends or family for emotional support instead of turning to health care professionals-in fact, mental illness is often stigmatized and misunderstood in the black community." This statement supports what I attempted to say in class. As a Black woman, in reference to my cultural experience and observation. Black people tend to be less accepting of the diagnosis of ADHD or any mental health disorder for that matter. We deny it or we attempt to fix it within the means of religious ideologies and family. 


I found it interesting that the Inside ADHD Organization (www.insideADHD.Org) acknowledged that assessment tools used for ADHD maybe an issue. "Some researchers believe these tools may not be accurate for PEOPLE FROM DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS." The tools present issues such as not allowing a child to speak in their native language. The questions asked may not be CULTURALLY SENSITIVE. Additionally, RACE and ETHNICITY may affect how an adult rates a child's behavior. This statement supports the opinion that different cultures have different expectations of students. BECAUSE we have different perspectives and backgrounds this should be considered when taking a teachers word on a students behavior. 


"In some African American families the stigma surrounding visiting a mental health professional is worse for the parents than the parents accepting the symptoms of ADHD." Why is the stigma so strong? What caused it? I believe the history of slavery, and having to overcome and persevere through many obstacles creates a pride of not wanting to present any type of weakness in any form. I believe African Americans still lack trust in health care system, and would rather seek help from their community church, friends and family.


"Research has found that some African American parents have greater biases toward the mental health field than white parents that PREVENT the child from using MEDICATION even if the child WOULD BENEFIT from it." Read more information on this at www.examiner.com 


What parent wouldn't want to help their child to the best of their ability? Sammy stated in class, its a never ending process of pills; The Meds are NOT A CURE. I think some African American parents realize that as well, and use other options.


I believe the youtube video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVV_ZhpK9aM) titled Parenting & Discipline : How to Discipline an ADHD Child does a great job of providing alternative perspectives.

Parenting & Discipline : How to Discipline an ADHD Child

Joel Osteen - Say 'NO' To Your Feelings

FEELINGS...we all have them...So what?

The only hard evidence I have heard for major changes in life were FEELINGS!!! Feelings should not control us, we should CONTROL our feelings in my opinion. Joel Osteen does a great job of providing empowerment and reason to support that we shouldnt allow something so unstable as our feelings to control us. Often easily stated and not easily done. AJ mentioned that one of his family members were very supportive and stated God is only concerned about his soul; he is not concerned about the vessel. He did not elaborate on his personal beliefs, but appeared to be at peace about her perspective.

I know God is Love and love covers a multitude of sin(1 Peter 4:8). I know that regardless of what we do God loves us, but requires us to choose to LOVE HIM also. The Bible states if we LOVE HIM we should follow his commandments (John 14:23).

We can get so wrapped up in ourselves and forget that we have a CREATOR that made us in HIS IMAGE!!! A creator that states we are FEARFULLY and WONDERFULLY made(Psalm 139:14). A creator that if we took the time to seek HIM; He would provide His will for our lives.

Sometimes its easier to go with the grain, than go against the grain. It's easy to surrender to temptation. Sometimes we are not mentally tough, and do not seek Godly counsel to help us. There are a lot of scenarios that maybe presented as to why we do the things we do; but feelings should not dictate things that are life altering.


It's amazing to me how many people do not take responsibility for themselves, their minds, and life. They give up responsibility to feelings, media,and society. They pretend to allow outside sources to control who they are and what they do. Which is sad. Really the choice lies inside, in our personal thoughts and minds.